Is It Respectful to Wear Sunglasses to a Funeral?
When attending a funeral, most people want to show respect through their appearance and behaviour. One common question that arises—especially for outdoor or summer services—is whether wearing sunglasses is appropriate.
The Short Answer: Yes, It Can Be
Wearing sunglasses to a funeral is generally considered acceptable and respectful, provided they are worn thoughtfully. In fact, sunglasses can serve a practical and emotional purpose during such a difficult time.
Why People Wear Sunglasses to Funerals
To Shield Eyes from the Sun
Outdoor funerals or graveside services often involve direct sunlight. Wearing sunglasses helps protect your eyes and allows you to remain focused and present without squinting or discomfort.To Hide Tears or Emotions
Funerals are emotionally charged, and it’s not uncommon for people to cry or feel overwhelmed. Sunglasses can offer a small layer of privacy, especially when you want to grieve without feeling exposed.For Medical or Personal Reasons
Some individuals may have light sensitivity, medical eye conditions, or wear prescription sunglasses. In these cases, sunglasses are a necessity, not just an accessory.
What to Avoid
While sunglasses are generally fine, style and tone matter:
Avoid flashy or oversized designer shades. Stick to simple, understated styles—preferably in black or dark colours.
Don’t wear mirrored or brightly tinted lenses. These can draw attention and may come across as distracting or inappropriate in a sombre setting.
Avoid leaving them on indoors unless necessary. If the service moves inside, it’s polite to remove your sunglasses unless you have a medical reason not to.
When in Doubt, Consider the Context
Location and culture matter. In some cultures or religious services, wearing sunglasses might be seen differently. When unsure, follow the tone of the event or ask someone close to the family.
Relationship to the deceased. If you’re a close friend or family member, your presence and emotional state will likely be understood and accepted—even if you wear sunglasses throughout. If you're a more distant attendee, keeping things simple and respectful is a safe bet.
Final Thoughts
Wearing sunglasses to a funeral isn’t inherently disrespectful—in many cases, it’s entirely appropriate. Just be mindful of how you wear them, and remember: funerals are about paying respects, supporting others, and honouring the life of someone who’s passed. As long as your choices reflect that spirit, you’re doing the right thing.
Holmes & Family Funeral Directors cover Hampshire, Surrey and West London. We are Funeral Directors in Aldershot, Farnborough, Fleet and Sandhurst. We are an independent family funeral directors. Call us now on 01252 628600.
